There are circles, or boundaries, in life that we must all follow. If we don’t, there are side effects that’ll be paid by you, me, and those family around us.
may I explain what I’m trying to say by circles of life.
Each life is a circle. Me and you and everybody that is born into this world is a circle. Our circle belongs to us and no-one else. It’s the fringe that surrounds who we are and what all of us are about. Our character and character all belong to us and operates within our circles. Those that are authorized in are sometimes in a position to see a more deeper and intimate side of us. The real us is disclosed to these very selected few.
We are the only ones who can give authorization in regards to what or who comes into our circles. This is exceedingly important. Who we date, marry, what types of friends we have what ever the situation, we permit or invite folks into our circles.
You meet the woman or man of your dreams and you go out and get wed. This person has now become a partner in your circle. Your circle and theirs have become one circle.You and they’re in the most personal and deep part of who you are and what makes you tick. They can now see you as you really are, and you can see them as they really are, and the circle is complete. There isn’t any room for anybody else. From this point on, the circle can now only be opened to others by the permission of you and your other half. You both control who comes in.
I must stress this point, because it is so vital. I am not saying that you or your partner loose your identity. Remember, both your circles have blended into one. That is the reason why a ring is exchanged at the marriage ceremony as it represents the unifying of the two individual circles into one. The two have turned into one. This unification process will take a whole life to complete, and there are several events and circumstances which will take place to bring this about, but that’ll be for another article. Right now I just need to lay the ground work in regards to what the circles of life are and how they operate.
Now there are youngsters that come into this new family. They’re an extension of the more broad circle that makes up our family. They are not in the inner circle, which is husband and other half, they make up another circle which has all their youngsters.
Nobody is ever allowed in the inner circle, not even children. This is sacred ground that belongs only to the husband and other half. Here is where I feel so many people today make a massive mistake. I see people who let youngsters in this circle, or buddies, or past-times, or anything more, and these things will come in and attempt to take over the central heart of this family, ( which remember is the husband and wife ), and destroy it from inside. Before you know it they’re dominating the time and energies that were only allocated for husband and better half and now there’s a crack and eventual slow separation of this central hub. This is the reason why, I suspect there are such a lot of divorces. If we do not honor these circles of life, there is a price that’ll be paid by many concerned.
There is other circles that are all extensions of the central one, that include aunts, uncles, granny and grandpa. These are all crucial parts of the circles of life, but they must be in their right places and given the proper respect and honor. Next there’s pals, and then there is work mates etc and for example. I am hoping you can visualise what I’m talking about here.
I’ve seen this play out in my personal life and in the lives of my children and others around me. We are living in a society where nobody honors any circles at all, and the result’s divorce, broken relationships, angriness, and hostility. This is also played out in other states, executives, and companies and the result is the same.
It is very basic and easy to appreciate, but extraordinarily hard to implement in our each day living, but it is so important and something we all must abide by. If these circles are recognized and honoured, the result is strong relationships, love and expansion between individuals, and a much needed peace between all.
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